I saw Cloverfield last Sunday night with Jeremy and Marc. We had a man date after catching the end of the Packers/Giants game (before they went into OT). Afterwards we went to a bar to discuss and drink.

Going into the movie I didn’t know anything other than figuring it was a monster movie somewhat like Godzilla except actually good. I liked that the commercials kept everything mysterious and such so I really didn’t know what to expect. This kept up at the beginning of the movie as you knew something was going to happen but nothing was. Until, well, something did.

So, the monster. I’m going to try to talk generally about this. In my opinion, this really isn’t a “monster movie”. I heard someone complaining as they left the theater that it should have gone “straight to video”. I think they missed the point. Don’t go in expecting Aliens or Godzilla, it’s unlike any other movie out there.
Anyway, the monster isn’t so much a character in the movie as it is more of a force of nature. Meaning, it’s not like This-Main-Big-Bad-Guy vs. Our Favorite Protagonist(s). I found this refreshing as I think it’s demeaning to the monster to have it ONLY out to get our good guys.
You don’t really get a good look at the monster until the very end, only glimpses and teases before then. The mind can make things much scarier than any fancy 3D computer dealy.

As there was an air of mystery throughout the movie (the monster is never explained or its origins, some of the effects of the monster, etc.) that I was looking for clues throughout and I can’t wait for this to come out on DVD so we can go frame-by-frame through some scenes.
Especially at the end, as that could hold a major clue.

I really tried to stay away from the hype around this movie thinking that although I rarely go out to the theaters anymore (married with children and all that) I would really like to see it someday. Luckily, an opportunity arose and I went. See this in the theaters if at all possible. There’s also a little clue at the very very end of the credits.
Check www.io9.com for more + spoilers.

Milo went for his first swim lesson this afternoon with me. Whenever we’ve gone to drop Oskar off for his lesson and he watches the kids in the pools he reaches his arms out toward the water and begins to chirp.

Well, it was his turn today and he didn’t quite know what to think. We got our swim shorts on and headed out to the pool and then rinsed off in the shower out there. We looked at the toddler pool to find our group since the big pool was empty, then saw some parents with kids move from there to the big pool so we followed.

As soon as he got in the water he stopped wriggling around as much and grabbed on to me tightly. He never let go of me the entire 30 minutes we were in there. His eyes got big and he quietly looked around while we sang songs at the beginning of class. There wasn’t really any transition to the moving from one of the pool to the other and as we swam back and forth he just kept looking at me with his big eyes while trying to hold on to me. He didn’t look scared, just a little … concerned (if I may quote The Princess Bride). If I held him out to swim his little eyes would just get bigger as he tried to paddle back to me.

He was also getting cold. He was shivering while we were in the pool toward the end and his little lips were turning a shade of blue. We got back to the dressing room and took a warmer shower and then got dressed to go home. It’s funny, he’s always been really excited about water but this time he thought he might need some time to get used to it.

He did finally smile once, while we were singing, “The horns on the bus go beep, beep, beep” and splashed each time we beeped the horns.

We just got back from our first ride of the season, well pre-season perhaps, down at the Foothills Trail. This was the first time we got Oskar and Milo together in the bike trailer so I thought a quick jaunt down to the trail to get the feel for things would be in order. I packed up books, toys and bike snax for both of them.
Rose met her friend Courtney down there which worked out well since we couldn’t fit both boys with carseats, my bike and the bike trailer into one vehicle. We need a bike rack especially if we want to get Rose’s bike from her parents so she can join us on two wheels.
So once we got the big ordeal going and the boys situated and happy I took off. I didn’t really know how far I would be going since Rose and Courtney were walking and I didn’t know how long the boys would last in the back. It’s a good thing we didn’t go too long, wow, what a work out.
I mean, I know I’m just getting back in shape but it was still tough. Low speeds are kind of herky-jerky if Oskar is moving around; I can really feel him bounce the bike around. It’s kind of like in spin class when you turn up the resistance except there is never any turning down of said resistance; there’s no recovery.
I could only sustain speeds of about 14 maybe 14.5 mph. I could sprint up to 16.5 but stay that fast for maybe a few seconds. In contrast, last year before STP while I was on that trail I could stay around 18.5-20 mph for most of the 30 miles. Today I went 11 miles.
Like I said, I know it’s early in the season but man that was hard. I think this will be great strength training for me. I feel like the guy in “The Adventures of Baron von Munchausen” who had the huge ball and chain tied to him. When he needed to go super speed he just took it off and raced away. That will be me in five months of this.
I’m really excited about going out with the boys more. I’m glad they had a good time. I was also pleased to see so many people out and about on the trail in mid-January. It makes me happy to think their are more people out there like us who want to take advantage of the balmy 45 degree sunshine.

A sampling of things going on right now:

This was a friend in elementary and middle school. I doubt you heard about it but apparently in our state of affairs these days it merits little mention.

Oskar’s swim classes have begun again but he has yet to go. He’s been sleepy and/or cranky.

I started spin again. Gone twice so far. Started a group of cyclists in the district. Will do STP and other rides again.

Milo walks here and there but prefers the crawling; he can go faster and he knows it.

Teaching is going well but lots of big projects going on at once now and perhaps other possible things for next year.

I will be presenting at a local eductional technology conference for the second time in as many years.

Holidays were fun. Every morning Oskar asked who we were visiting that day.

Boys got a bike trailer for Christmas. Oskar broke it in with me in the rain (good way to get the dust and cobwebs off your bike).

Looking forward to new Death Cab album in May …

Can it be that here it is 8:30 in the morning and I’m up while everyone else is in bed? Notice I didn’t say sleeping …
I heard Oskar get up this morning around 5 and thought that he was coming into our room. I next heard the toilet flush, door close, another door close and then silence. He got up, went potty and went back to bed! I am so proud of my little boy. Of course he did come into our room about 30 minutes later. I told him he could get in my bed only if he closed his eyes and went back to sleep. He did. Then I had to get up with Milo at 7. We played, took pictures, made coffee, he ate breakfast, we played some more then he started to get cranky and yawn so I bounced him around a bit to give him a taste of what was to come (back to sleep) then took him to Rose since that was where he was off to anyways.

Milo can stand on his own now for some time. He pulls himself up and then stands looking at something or playing, or clapping, he loves to do that. You can also pick him up and then instead of plopping him on the floor on his bottom just stand him up and he’ll stay there until he sees something he wants to get. I’ve seen him take a little half of a step toward me or Rose but usually if he’s standing there he’ll wobble a little bit but then drop down to the ground to go crawl since he knows he can do that really well. He can also walk around with his hippo toy and practically runs down the hall. No walking for this boy, how else is he going to keep up with his big brother?

Oskar finished his first swim session without me and we got a little sheet back to let us know what he can do, what he can almost do and what he still needs work on. He only had one thing that he needs work on, it was something I didn’t really understand. Something about floating and then standing up. He can almost swim 5 feet on his back, stomach, or side all by himself. Not that I’m trying to raise an Olympic swimmer here but I am so proud that he can do almost all of the beginning level of swimming just after his first time.

Oskar also had his Holiday night at his school. The kids sang lots of songs and it was very nice. Oh, and apparently we have “that kid”. You know, the one who is dancing and swaying while everyone else is singing and standing still. The one who claps along with the audience when the song is over. Yeah, we have him. I’ll post up pictures once I get some from the multitudes that we brought along.

Oskar has been taking swim lessons since he was a little baby but this was the first time he had swim lessons by himself without me. We were a little nervous because although he has been going to school and becoming the big boy that he is but this was still something new and we didn’t know how it would turn out. Also he had fallen asleep on the way home so I didn’t know if he would wake up happy or cranky as he does sometimes or at all.

Anyway, we got to the YMCA and met his instructor and I took him in to the locker room to change and then we met up with his class near the pool. I didn’t really say goodbye or introduce him he just joined the group and did what he was told and followed around the other kids to the shower. We watched him and his group in the toddler pool while they jumped around and kicked and floated on their backs.

It’s funny, the things that get you as parents. We’re sitting their watching our boy play and follow directions from his instructor, just simple little things, and yet the emotions they bring up. I understand how parents can get all choked up over seemingly simple things when you start to remember how little they used to be, etc. etc. Afterwards we told Oskar how proud we were of him and how he listened really well to his instructor (something we’re working on) and we went out to Cold Stone to celebrate.

Milo is still hurting due to his teeth coming in. It appears that his lateral incisors are coming in on top (one just cut through yesterday) and pushing his central incisors together; he has a little gap between his top middle two teeth. We’re hoping that once this round of teeth come in we can go back to that sweet nirvana of him sleeping through the night. He has been doing a little better, sleeping until 1-3 in the morning instead of waking up an hour or so after he goes to bed. I have been trying to put him to bed before he is all the way asleep. It takes a while but I’m trying to convince him that he can fall asleep on his own without someone holding him.

He is such a funny boy. He loves to play and crawl away from us. He stops and looks back to see if we’re following and then giggles and crawls away further. Oskar likes to get into the act and gets on my back and we both go after his little brother. Oskar even says as we chase Milo down the hall, “Dad, he can go into my bedroom!” Milo gets his share of bumps and bruises (owing somewhat to having a big brother) but he’s a tough little guy. I guess he has to be.

Oh, he also loves to dance. He will pull himself up onto a piece of furniture and bounce and bop around while the music plays. We just pulled out a little toy from when Oskar was a baby, a little train that drives about 5 feet, and although Milo wanted to chase after it, he couldn’t help but boogie to the little music it was playing. He would let it go, dance a little, and then chase after it.

I haven’t seen much of Oskar lately as he has been not napping and therefore falling asleep on the way home. I only see him if he gets up in the middle of the night to go potty and then in the morning. He loves making smoothies together in the morning and proclaims that he, “loves protein powder.” We are having a hard time getting him to listen to us and actually do the things in a reasonable amount of time but I suppose what parents of three year-olds aren’t?

A few weeks ago while the weather was nice on a weekend we took Oskar’s bike to the park and he rode around the lake three times and mostly by himself. That’s a couple miles and for a little boy I was quite proud of him. He did take a spill while going down a hill (he’s working on braking, he instinctually puts his feet down instead of on the pedals) and although he cried for a little bit he got right back on his bike and kept going.

Oskar is going to be a dragon for Halloween, we’ll get some pictures up. He is dressing up for school on Wednesday and we’ll go trick-or-treating later that day with him. He also took his costume with his grandparents while he was out on the boat in Wollochet, it’s an outstation of the Tacoma Yacht Club and he was there for a Halloween party that kids and grandkids of members have.

Our boys are so much fun and we’re constantly just playing and hugging them and enjoying the time we spend with them.

FW: Cupcake!

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Cupcake!

For the fourth time in a row, Milo has slept all the way through the night. He’s been going to bed around 7:00 or 7:30 PM and waking up when we get ready in the morning around 6:00 AM. All of a sudden we have the bed to ourselves, and what a very large bed it is. The funny thing is that he just started doing this, the sleeping through the night. There was no gradual sleeping more and more or waking up less and less. I think his teeth stopped hurting, for now, and so there was nothing to wake him up several times during the night.

In other news he pretty much has a command over crawling. He can sit up from a crawl and go anywhere he wants. He also tries to bear walk, which is pretty funny since he sticks his bottom way up in the air and it looks like he’s trying to do push-ups. The other amazing thing is he can pull himself up to standing when he’s sitting. I found this out last night when I sat him down on the floor in front of me so I could take my shoes off. I felt him pulling and grabbing on my pants and I looked down and there he was standing on his own holding on to my jeans. It took me a few moments to realize what was going on since I have never seen him do that and he’s still just a little boy.

It’s funny how you forget to baby proof your house once you have a crawler and stander but with the second kid we’re less freaky scared about everything.

Oh yeah, I almost forgot. Milo has upgraded his baby babbles and is now saying “bob”, “bobba”, and, sometimes, “mom” and “momma”.

Both boys are sleeping in their OWN beds in their OWN bedrooms right now …

Ah …